tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29308661.post743903045125646452..comments2023-05-14T08:06:41.594-05:00Comments on Creating My Own Little Nirvana: Healing Children from Trauma, Resource #2Kerihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04886116438383281567noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29308661.post-59123466099634438832010-08-24T02:25:38.703-05:002010-08-24T02:25:38.703-05:00I love it, and I can see that it's the only th...I love it, and I can see that it's the only thing that CAN work, cause nothing else has. The logic is there, but I do well, then struggle, then get lost in my "how I was raised nature". Hate that! I also have a hard time explaining it well to my won't-read-it husband. He buys it, but not completely. And you have to be all in for it to work. So, still a struggle.Unspeakable Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01665163940880648285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29308661.post-6225861197698676572010-08-18T17:25:09.828-05:002010-08-18T17:25:09.828-05:00I passed this recommendation on to my mother-in-la...I passed this recommendation on to my mother-in-law and it turns out she's already on the author's email list and is considering going to one of the seminars. She asked me if the Russian adoption she sometimes mentions in her email is you, but I told that so many of the children adopted from Russia have these kinds of problems that it could be any one of them.Skydancerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13242784687833357071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29308661.post-72410462853522239192010-08-18T12:43:46.661-05:002010-08-18T12:43:46.661-05:00Our house is a strong BCLC house! I love Heather ...Our house is a strong BCLC house! I love Heather Forbes and love the perspective she brings. I will tell you that I treated myself to the Heather Forbes Mom's Day out COnference. It was online for 5 days and literally it changed my life. My own issues with my RAD have been identified. I am more whole and able to face my own trauma that I didn't knew was affecting my parenting. I STRONGLY suggest it for any other moms. It was a great experience and well worth it!Brandy-new rad momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16312863176518999375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29308661.post-63185294987151024412010-08-18T09:21:27.585-05:002010-08-18T09:21:27.585-05:00We were strong adherents in the early years of wor...We were strong adherents in the early years of working with our son to heal. And it worked and continues to. As our son has healed, we have introduced strong veins of Love and Logic as well. Now we are in somewhat of a transitional phase where we vacillate between BCLC and LaL, depending on context and situation. I am of the opinion that LaL can't work until a certain degree of healing and mastery of cause and effect thinking have been achieved. We are lucky to have reached that stage with our son. Now I rely on BLCL any time he seems dysregulated or triggered, but LaL for getting things done around the house and helping him develop a greater sense of responsibility. Little little steps at a time, with constant falling back to the BCLC safety net!BThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11802465316673594087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29308661.post-63380534264521948772010-08-17T21:21:55.290-05:002010-08-17T21:21:55.290-05:00I'm a groupie! I loved her before, and I love...I'm a groupie! I loved her before, and I love her even more now that I've met her in person! She has a gift for teaching and sharing what works in plain English.Dianahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08444891084585965661noreply@blogger.com