tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29308661.post378826587019318632..comments2023-05-14T08:06:41.594-05:00Comments on Creating My Own Little Nirvana: Ahh, Wish They'd Call!Kerihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04886116438383281567noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29308661.post-16619029838131315892008-12-19T05:13:00.000-05:002008-12-19T05:13:00.000-05:00I am a foster parent. This is not bizarre at all!...I am a foster parent. This is not bizarre at all! It is the order of the day. Never expect anything better; expect a LOT worse....and, unfortunately, not just "not doing anything" worse. WORSE would be to get a worker on your case (so to speak) who is gung-ho. After two years of being ignored - I got a young worker who is zealous - and zealous in horrific ways. From day one, she seemed dedicated to getting our foster child out of our home and into residential treatment. I am truly wondering if she gets some sort of kick-back for placing kids. That doesn't seem reasonable, but from day one - the first meeting! - she has done everything she can to remove him from our home. This woman is truly a nightmare. But - if I need help? Forget that! Our foster child is a handsome, bright, athletic HS student. He refuses to wear glasses (as one might expect) but can I get any help with contact lenses? No way! I have to pay the $200 or let him go to school blind.Anniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12623179886908222942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29308661.post-76319261951673276142008-12-18T22:50:00.000-05:002008-12-18T22:50:00.000-05:00Be careful with telling them your qualifications. ...Be careful with telling them your qualifications. In my experience case workers REALLY downplay any PTSD or RAD. They say things like "kids are resilient" and "he's too young to have RAD" or "if a child really has RAD, they need to be in an institution."<BR/>Call again. It may just be that it is the holidays and there is generally a BIG influx of kids in the system during the holidays. They may be too busy to get back to you. Call again in January.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02295714433164887820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29308661.post-25769946038009214362008-12-18T15:20:00.000-05:002008-12-18T15:20:00.000-05:00Lisa (above) probably nailed it. It's a money thin...Lisa (above) probably nailed it. It's a money thing. Not only do they need to spend their advertising budget, but they probably try to keep the number of children that they care for at a certain level, so as to retain a certain amount of federal funding...very sad (if true).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29308661.post-44928754148515604462008-12-18T13:05:00.000-05:002008-12-18T13:05:00.000-05:00Not surprising. My recommendations: Call them ever...Not surprising. My recommendations: Call them every day. Email them at least once each week. Look up all the people involved in doing foster care and contact them until you have an actual appointment. Unfortunately, that's what it takes...Torinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00992090842674056507noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29308661.post-6955403886233659272008-12-18T07:10:00.000-05:002008-12-18T07:10:00.000-05:00It's the same in GA. They, too, have all the ads ...It's the same in GA. They, too, have all the ads everywhere you look but no phone calls. Nope. I've been waiting to hear from them for over 3 years and nothing, nada. I don't understand either. I think they just have money budgeted for ads so they spend it but don't really mean it. <BR/><BR/>When J was first placed here ICPC notified the state before placement. GA was supposed to monitor the placement. Someone has yet to show up or call (2 years and 3 months later). The placing state finally gave up after 6 months of waiting on GA and hired someone to monitor the placement. Good thing J was in a good home or she would've fell off the radar.<BR/><BR/>Hope the other situation is resolving itself.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16146320008307628429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29308661.post-24712283726558442112008-12-18T00:11:00.000-05:002008-12-18T00:11:00.000-05:00That is bizarre. I hope they call soon.That is bizarre. I hope they call soon.Brendahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05811548306583601019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29308661.post-9697806159873748612008-12-17T23:29:00.000-05:002008-12-17T23:29:00.000-05:00I hope you hear something tomorrow or soon. I neve...I hope you hear something tomorrow or soon. I never understand why when they need families and there is a good one available they don't jump on it, but it always seems the case.Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15749377046524745581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29308661.post-75466008942228899162008-12-17T22:57:00.000-05:002008-12-17T22:57:00.000-05:00Oh, I hope they call! You would be great!Oh, I hope they call! You would be great!Kristina P.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16144488639100871226noreply@blogger.com